Parenting With A Trauma History

Some people who become parents will have experienced trauma or abuse when they were a child, often at the hands of their caregivers or parents.

These experiences may have felt safely in the past, but becoming a parent can often cause difficult memories of past trauma to resurface.

It can be hard to manage the demands of a new baby at the same time as coping with distressing memories of past trauma.

Common reasons to seek therapy as a parent who has experienced childhood trauma

  • Needing a safe space to work through unresolved hurt, sadness and pain which has resurfaced

  • Developing coping strategies to manage distress and difficult feelings

  • Trying to meet the needs of your baby whilst also attending to your own unmet needs

  • Considering how you might parent differently compared to how you were parented

  • Wanting to avoid repeating patterns from your own childhood but not knowing how to do this